I finished the PostSecret book. Post Secret is one of my favorite regular stops on the internet expressway. The concept is so simple-create and mail in an anonymous post card telling a secret you have never told anyone. Many find it cathartic to release these secrets and also to read them. Many of the cards themselves are works of art.
This is a card in from the most current posting on the website.
There is a poignancy to many of the cards, but not all are negative. One that stayed with me (it's in the book) is simple drawings of hearts with words repeated all around the borders (joy,love etc.) and around the hearts. There is the declaration that the writer's husband is the first man who has never hit or abused her and the little words around the hearts declare , joyfully, over and over "and he never will!".
I often find myself wondering what I would send to the PostSecret address if I were ever so inclined. One problem is that I tend to not harbor a lot of absolute secrets. Another is that those secrets that I might have hidden are in many ways hidden from myself.
Many have written in to the website's owner and told him how they have created cards and instead of sending them to him sent them or gave them to the people in their lives who needed to see them. Often these stories have good outcomes.
The best thing about the site and perusing the cards published in the book is seeing that many of the things we all feel are shared by others. Once again confirming Spider Robinson's wonderful words: "Shared pain is lessened,shared joy is increased-thus do we refute entropy."